Episode 050: Handling Rejection

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The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:

Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone down in the moment at a sex party? How circumstances, headspace and how well you know the person comes into play: private play parties, organized play parties, lifestyle resorts, etc. (10:45)

The do's and don'ts of rejection.  Rejecting over text, ghosting, and being clear and respectful. (16:24)

Vee gets rejected over text, and how to deal with being rejected. (22:45)

Couples and rejection: just because your partner plays with someone does not mean you will play with them or their partner.  (24:58)

How to reject someone during group sex when you’re not into one of the people. (27:43)

Being approached vs approaching: The gender norms in pursuing, and how we subconsciously consider feelings differently between men and women. (34:41)

Turning down couples with different boundaries. (37:49)

Common Excuses: “I have my period.” (39:38 42:08)

Common Excuses: “I’m polysaturated.” What is polysaturated, using it as a way to turn someone down, and how to deal with polysaturation. (44:35)

The concept of “veto”. (46:59)