Episode 009: Threesoomes

Finding a Third, Being a Third, and What to Discuss Beforehand

In this episode, Elle and Vee record in the same room for the very first time! And they've saved a topic very close to their hearts: threesomes.  For many, this is a first step into sexual exploration or opening up a relationship, so the girls reminisce about some fun threesomes, as well as compiled some of their tips and tricks for having a successful threesome, including:

What are the different types of threesomes? Defining FMF, FFM, MFM... (2:05)

MMF: is it GAY to have a threesome with another dude (MFM)?  The stigma of men being in sexual environments together. (11:56) 

How to find a third (aka "unicorn")? (20:24)

Being a third for another couple, being able to be selfish, and being a good third by reading/navigating a couple’s energy. (24:08) 

Communication: What should you discuss beforehand? With your partner? With your third?  Boundaries, aftercare, and "Fears, Desires and Boundaries" conversation.  (26:51) 

Negative threesome experiences: when not to have a threesome, and how to deal with being triggered. (42:31)

BONUS: Fun FFM threesome positions! What Elle and Vee love about threesomes. (45:44)