Episode 041: Transformational Experiences of ENM

Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, dating couples (versus prioritizing finding her own primary), and sexual healing.

"Catalyst couples", awkward first dates and enthusiastic consent: how Leia was introduced to the lifestyle. (1:31)

Where should the couple sit at a 3-way date?  How women hold a lot of power in ENM. (12:24)

"AHA" moments from being in the open lifestyle. (16:57)

Single and open. (20:51)

What have you learned about yourself through polyamory? (24:03)

How have these experiences changed your sexuality? Using the label “bisexual”, strapping, doing anything 3 times, pegging, shibari and BDSM. (29:30)

BDSM as a form of therapy and healing, and the similarities between impact play and yoga. (34:32)

Sexual somatic training. (39:34)

How breast augmentation changes your relationship with your body. Accepting compliments. (40:25)