Episode 014: Hedonism Swing Breakers
Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights
In this episode, Elle and Vee record both during and after their week at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica for the theme week Hedonism Swing Breakers. First, they set intentions and afterwards, they reflect on their experience - all the highlights, learning moments and dirty details, including:
Hedonism: What is it like being nude in public, and how does it affect your interactions? How do you know what a couple’s boundaries and interests are? Theme nights and entertainment. (00:24)
Setting non-sexual intentions for the week. (9:44)
Sexual intentions and “Fuckit List” items: double penetration (DP) and gang bangs. (14:31)
Prioritizing time with your partner at swinger resorts, and how to deal with FOMO on group trips. (17:51)
Sexual mantras, sexual female connections and impact play sessions. (20:26)
Overall assessments of Hedo: does being nude in public get easier throughout the week? Comparing past Hedonism experiences and HSB 2023. Tip for newbies: get off the resort and go to Lobster Island! (24:16)
Using a banana as a sex toy: crazy silly memories with friends AKA the “Barnarnar” story. (34:46)
Major takeaway: friends in the lifestyle, the sense of community at HSB, and picking up where you left off the year before. (37:30)
What is Nuru, and why is it a highlight for Elle? (38:48)
Did Vee fulfill her DP intention? (43:10)
Vee’s first MFM: what’s the secret ingredient to enjoying and thriving in an MFM? (47:12)
What it’s like to have the party room. (51:15)
Triggers: How Elle worked through a triggering moment, and how she grew from it, the importance of speaking up and doing fears desires boundaries, and making everything about us. (53:44)
What is the Fetish Night show at Hedonism like? (1:02:57)
Re-learning the same lessons with your partner until they sink in: how do you deal when two partners have different libidos and aren’t on the same page at a lifestyle event? How women lead a lot of the interactions in the lifestyle, and the challenges for men when their partner isn’t in the mood. (1:04:27)
