Episode 048: Freaksgiving Revisit!
Sex Party Hosting Checklist, Sub/Dom and Impact Play, and Prioritizing Your Partner
Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including:
How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: what’s on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 )
The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings. (8:33 )
Elle shares a fun, sexy moment and the girls talk about the benefits of private versus public play. (10:20 )
Vee shares a story about a foursome, and how that experience helped her exercise her intention of acting on it when you feel sexual, and how “breaking the seal” of sexuality gets you in the mood for more sex. (14:45 )
BDSM and Spanking: Elle gives the play by play of a BDSM impact play scene, Vee talks about what she gets out of being the sub in an impact scene (spanking), and how BDSM can help you go deeper. (19:10 )
Observing the difference in your energy when you’re at a party solo versus with your partner. (27:45 )
Prioritizing time with your partner at parties. (29:19 )
How to break the ice and force yourself to socialize with everyone at a party! (32:55 )