Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks & BDSM

Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring.

Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (2:18)

How can you make it work when you’re both submissive? (9:25)

Being dommed with your partner. (14:19)

Hiring a pro dominatrix. (17:45)

Female dommes vs male doms: trust, comfort, and safety. (24:48)

DC Fetish Ball: what is it like? (28:55)

What do you get out of exploring fetish and kink? (36:00)

Sex therapy: working to be more assertive, going for what you want in the moment, and growing your self-confidence to overcome the fear of rejection. (38:53)

Pickup lines: the best ways to approach a couple at a week-long event, and one night only. (49:16)

Friends working to make friends' fantasies come true. (54:59)

Vee, Elle and Brandi's fantasies to check off the list in the future. Gang bangs and being worshipped. (59:54)

What are some fantasies that have been fulfilled that you'd like to repeat? MFM, MMF, pet play and more. (1:03:00)