Episode 024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise

Genital Herpes, OnlyFans, and Energy Healing

In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (safeslvt), and sex toy business owner (safeslut.shop). The girls go DEEP on these subjects and more, including:

Destigmatizing Herpes: What is the Safe Slut mission? What are HSV-1 and HSV-2? How is it transmitted? What is prodrome? What triggers an outbreak? What are the symptoms? (2:08) 

Herpes Testing: What kinds of tests are there, and how do you get tested for herpes? What do you do afterwards? (14:02)

Disclosing Your Status: How do you tell past or current partners that you tested positive? (16:49)

Safe.Slut: What is her mission? What does it mean to be a slut? Overcoming slut shaming from high school. Confirmation bias. (20:23)

OnlyFans: What’s a day in the life of an OnlyFans content creator like? Herpes in porn. Embracing your imperfections, waxing vs shaving your pussy, and ingrown hairs on your vulva. (25:57)

Talking to your friends and family (or not) about OnlyFans, your herpes status, and your sex life as a sex positive activist or sex educator. (31:24)

Trauma: Flipping negative situations on their head and taking your power back, from herpes to bullying. (36:24)

Creating Content: Asking dates to film on OnlyFans.  Chaturbate. Exhibitionists and BDSMtest.org. Dating a porn content creator. (39:31)

Disclosing: How do you bring up your STI status with a new partner? (44:49)

Support Tips: Natural remedies to help herpes outbreaks. (48:50)

Vibrators: Clit sucking, multi-use, and heated vibrators. Butt plugs or dicks? (51:18)

Unconventional Science and Spirituality: Astrology and other “woo-woo” magic. What is reiki and energy healing? What is quantum entanglement? (54:38)

Whoreible Life: Sex on the beach. Slapping across the face while fucking. Impact play. (1:02:33)

Takeaways for polyamorous people: Testing regularly, what to ask for when getting an STI test, and gonorrhea and chlamydia in the throat. (1:07:37)