Episode 017: Guys Gone Deep Chet on Approaching Women

Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers

Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifestyle, including:

Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is into you based on nonverbal signals? The importance of verbal communication. Should you ask for consent before touching someone (even non-sexually)? (1:46)

Organic Connections: Chemistry, and how does an initial “no” turn into a “yes”? (12:02)

Single vs partnered men: as a man, is it easier to play when a women is involved in the interaction? The dynamics of playing with partners. Aggressive men. (19:20)

Making Assumptions: The boundaries when playing with couples.  Taking liberties based on signals.  (29:16)

Panty Droppers! (33:32)

Turn-offs: how substances affect your ability to make connections, men taking liberties, asking for consent every time, aggressive dominance, and being creepy.  (41:27)

How to hit on a woman in the lifestyle: using your partner as a wing woman or wing man, using activities as a way to break the ice, and being vulnerable. (53:30)