Episode 027: The JOY of Porn

Connecting with your Partner, Formative Sexual Experiences, and VR Porn

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including:

How do you use porn? Authenticity in porn, “daddy” and age play, searching for specific vs playing porn roulette. (2:22)

Masturbation and porn. (7:04)

Using porn as a tool to connect with you partner. (9:30)

Favorite porn sites. (11:01) 

How does porn affect teens’ ideas of sex? (11:49)

How can porn contribute to and affect sexual confusion and sexual identity in teens? (16:46)

Do we watch what we want in real life? Erotic blueprints, porn rabbit holes. (22:48)

Negative effects of porn, and training yourself to like certain things. BDSM hack for associating pain with pleasure. (25:46)

Is watching porn cheating?  (31:04)

What would we sound like in the bedroom if we had never watched porn? Personal porn. (37:19)

Virtual Reality porn and AI porn. (40:53)

Links: 

Female-created porn: Bellesa.co

Erotic Blueprint: missjaiya.com

Real Sex Porn: makelovenotporn.tv

Soft Porn: stasyq.com

Crowd-sourced porn: xconfessions.com