Episode 030: How To Transition To Sexy Vibes in A Group
What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? Listen to find out!
Episode 029: All Things CUM
In this episode, Elle and Vee talk all things CUM.
Episode 028: Navigating Emotional Triggers
In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be an ethical porn consumer, and recapping Vee's weekend at a lifestyle party.
Episode 027: The JOY of Porn
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including their favorites, masturbation and erotic blueprints.
Episode 026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas
In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions including fluid bonds, STDs, primary relationships, being friends with your partner's metamours.
Episode 025: Baconfest 2023
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their weekend at Baconfest 2023 at their friends' house at the Jersey Shore. It was a mixture of ENM and vanilla couples, which lead to some interesting dynamics.
Episode 024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (safeslvt), and sex toy business owner (safeslut.shop). The girls go DEEP on these subjects and more.
Episode 023: Solo ENM with Holly
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in NYC, juxtaposing the girls’ married and partnered perspectives.
Episode 022: Boundaries
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the lifestyle, to how they evolved them.
Episode 021: Alternative Dating Apps for ENM and Kink
Sexual orientation: how do Elle and Vee identify themselves on Feeld? Changing your sexual orientation with more experience. What’s the difference between heteroflexible and bicurious, and is heteroflexible an offensive term? Defining heteroflexible, pansexual, asexual, and skoliosexual.
Episode 020: Weddings from an ENM Perspective
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts the girls to go deep on weddings, divorce, and what it means to be settled.
Episode 019: Arousal Styles, FOMO, and Running Into Ex Lovers
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Which One Are You?” The girls also go super deep and share the tools they use to work through FOMO (fear of missing out) when they miss out on activities with friends, plus they share some listener responses!
Episode 018: Female Friendships in ENM
Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is into you based on nonverbal signals? The importance of verbal communication. Should you ask for consent before touching someone (even non-sexually?
Episode 017: Guys Gone Deep Chet on Approaching Women
Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is into you based on nonverbal signals? The importance of verbal communication. Should you ask for consent before touching someone (even non-sexually?
Episode 016: Guys Gone Deep Chet on Leaving Mormonism
This week, Elle and Vee talk with Chet, whose journey into the non-monogamous lifestyle is unique in that he was raised in the Church of Latter Day Saints (aka he was Mormon). He talks about everything from his upbringing to the challenges of approaching women.
Episode 015: Going Deep with Julia Lange
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind Hedonism Swing Breakers, and the daughter of Harry Lange, the owner of Hedonism II in Jamaica! Then, they answer all your questions submitted on social media about Hedo.
Episode 014: Hedonism Swing Breakers
Elle and Vee record both during and after their week at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica for the theme week Hedonism Swing Breakers. First, they set intentions and afterwards, they reflect on their experience - all the highlights, learning moments and salacious details.
Episode 013: What Does “Vanilla” Mean To Swingers?
After some thought-provoking conversations with monogamous (non-lifestyle) friends, Vee and Elle discuss what the word "vanilla" actually means to them, and pose the same question to a few of their CNM (consensually non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism II in Jamaica.
Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep
This week, Elle and Vee chat with M and their friend The Builder, who are known as the "DP Duo" in their friend group. The girls ask them all the dirty details about double penetration, as well as go deep on The Builder's journey with his wife in the lifestyle.
Episode 011: Vagina Health
In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health.